“Redefine Your Journey: A ‘Where, Why, What’ Approach to Clarity.” 

Choosing Clarity Over Comfort: The Power of a Long-Term Vision

When faced with two seemingly good choices, how do you decide which one is right for you? Recently, I had the opportunity to guide someone through one of the most important decisions in their career—a career shift that wasn’t just about choosing a job but about shaping their future.

They were at a crossroads:

1. Stay in a job with no upward mobility and little room for growth.

2. Choose between two job offers:

• Option A: Better pay but limited future growth.

• Option B: A slightly lower-paying job but significant upward mobility and long-term benefits.

On paper, the choice wasn’t straightforward. The higher-paying job was tempting, but something wasn’t sitting right with them. That’s when they called me for help—because they knew the decision wasn’t just about right now. It was about their Where.

At the heart of their struggle was this question: How do I balance financial stability today with opportunities for growth tomorrow?

It’s a question many of us wrestle with when we face big decisions. The immediate temptation of a higher paycheck is hard to ignore. After all, our basic needs (Maslow’s Physiological and Safety Needs) often drive our decisions. But what happens when you realize that staying comfortable today could mean feeling stuck tomorrow?

To help them make the right decision, we walked through the Where, Why, What philosophy:

1. Where Do You Want to Go?

We started with the end goal. I asked:

• Where do you see yourself in five years?

• What does your ideal career look like long-term?

• Is entrepreneurship something you’ve ever considered?

Their answers pointed to a desire for growth, leadership opportunities, and eventually using their skills to start their own business.

2. Why Is That Important to You?

Next, we unpacked their motivation. I asked:

• Why does upward mobility matter to you?

• Why do you want to leave your current job?

They shared that being in a stagnant position left them feeling undervalued and stuck. They wanted to be in an environment that supported their growth and allowed them to learn—ultimately preparing them for their dream of entrepreneurship.

3. What Steps Will Get You There?

Finally, we looked at the options through the lens of the Where and Why. The choice became clearer:

• The higher-paying job (Option A) offered financial comfort now but no clear path forward.

• The lower-paying job (Option B) offered an opportunity to grow, learn on the job, and eventually transition into entrepreneurship.

We realized Option B aligned more with their long-term vision. It wasn’t about immediate gratification; it was about setting the foundation for the future.

In the end, they chose the job that offered upward mobility and long-term growth (Option B). Why? Because:

• It allowed them to get paid to learn—a key step toward self-actualization in Maslow’s hierarchy.

• It supported their future goal of entrepreneurship.

• It aligned with their Where, which was to be in a position of growth and impact.

While the higher-paying job would have provided short-term stability, it would have likely left them stuck in another cycle of stagnation—a pattern they wanted to break.

Key Takeaway: Short-Term Comfort vs. Long-Term Clarity

This experience highlights the importance of asking yourself:

• What is my “Where”?

• Why is it important to me?

• What steps can I take now to get closer to my vision?

When we factor in long-term clarity over short-term comfort, our decisions become intentional and future-focused. It’s easy to be swayed by what feels good today, but the real growth happens when we prioritize what gets us closer to the person we’re striving to become.

Your Turn: Redefine Your Journey

Are you at a crossroads in your career, relationships, or life in general? Take a moment to apply the Where, Why, What philosophy to your own situation:

• Where: What is your long-term goal?

• Why: Why is that important to you?

• What: What is one step you can take today to get closer to your Where?

Let’s redefine your journey together. Share your reflections or reach out—I’d love to hear how this philosophy works for you.


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